4. Women overestimate their own values. That leads to bitter disappointment because they can get the men they want, only for sex.
5. Some (not all, some) men underestimate their values.
6. It might be that people want equal to their “self-inflated values” but it almost never works out that way. Most women get a man who is above them in SMV. Most men get a woman below them in SMV. Both “settle”, as it were.
Your conclusion that most women are not hypergamous is where you’re getting tripped up.
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Han Solo says:
May 14, 2014 at 2:23 pm
It would be interesting to hear the looks distributions (in terms of relationships/marriage ladder vs. sex ladder) of guys here, especially the higher-N guys.
Also, I remember the commenter Zach basically saying the same thing where some of the women he had sex with (due to beer goggles or whatever) were not up to snuff for more than a bang.
Of course, a man with tons of options would never need to bang lower than relationship-quality looks but such men are rare. Likewise, a man could choose to only have sex (in or out of an LTR) with women that met his LTR looks threshold, and thus, usually, have less total sex partners.
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